In this great big world that we inhabit, we sometimes think/feel we can control lots of things, or people or circumstances... but the truth is... we don't... and we simply can't.
Paling paling best pun, you can only have INFLUENCE over things, people and circumstances, but you don't have CONTROL over them.
The only ONE thing we really have control over is our attitude. It determines the choices we make, the actions we take and eventually... the results we live in.
So, why not instead of punishing yourself over something that you have no control over, sebaiknya calmly just accept the things you can't control instead?
When we are calm, it would be much easier to try to influence others around us (especially loved ones) with WORDS, ACTIONS AND INSPIRATIONS to change for the better.
Tapi... after all has been said and done, kalau tak berkesan jugak ... hmmm...
"Que Sera Sera, what will be.. will be..."
Paling paling best pun, you can only have INFLUENCE over things, people and circumstances, but you don't have CONTROL over them.
The only ONE thing we really have control over is our attitude. It determines the choices we make, the actions we take and eventually... the results we live in.
So, why not instead of punishing yourself over something that you have no control over, sebaiknya calmly just accept the things you can't control instead?
When we are calm, it would be much easier to try to influence others around us (especially loved ones) with WORDS, ACTIONS AND INSPIRATIONS to change for the better.
Tapi... after all has been said and done, kalau tak berkesan jugak ... hmmm...
"Que Sera Sera, what will be.. will be..."
Hmmmmm,..hmmmmmm, susah puzzle ni
ReplyDeleteMCK,
ReplyDeletebila otak dah berserabut, kat sini la tempat membebel release tension sorang2...
:-D