Tuesday, October 09, 2012

Mengejar Cita-cita


Setelah selesai sibuk dari awal tahun menguruskan majlis perkahwinan Farid/Kartina and majlis perkahwinan Yasmin/Faris, tibalah giliran my youngest son, Firdaus, pula.

Eh! tak... tak... bukan Firdaus nak kahwin! tak... isy!...

After completing his A Levels at Kolej Mara Seremban, I waited anxiously for the University offer letter with anticipation.  Alhamdulillah, application successful.

On 10 Sept 2012, Firdaus left for Manchester…  off to new adventures, new horizons, his own life, his own decisions, the beginning of a new chapter in his life… and in mine.



 at  KLIA



 Mimi Maisara and her Paksu Firdaus



Walau sedih, Faiz managed to hide his feelings well  :-)



my mum also made a trip with us to KL to send him off



 semua dah siap nak berlepas ke UK



 lapar la pulak! makan apa tuuu ?



 Firdaus's teacher came from Kolej Mara Seremban to bid him farewell



pesanan dan restu dari guru



 Shikin with her parents Encik Tajuddin and Puan Jeleha



 call for boarding 



immigration check



finally....




.... and off he goes.






Tuesday, October 02, 2012

YASMIN & FARIS WEDDING VIDEO 2

YASMIN & FARIS WEDDING VIDEO

Wedding Yasmin & Faris - Part 3


25 August 2012, Sabtu -  Kenduri pihak pengantin lelaki di dewan USM. 


dah siap berdandan sempat lagi touch-up inai di jari



sementara menunggu... bergambar dulu



posing di gazebo sebelum berangkat ke dewan















wedding cake



Firdaus, Ani, Nur Hanie makan bersama-sama pengantin







From left: My parents, Uncle Ibrahim, Aunty Mazham, Shireen, Shahirah and Edany



From left: Mak Ngah, Kak Ju, Farah, my sister Liza, Faiz and Aiman 



Alhamdulillah... kenyang dah



my family



Left: Farid, Faris, Yasmin, Kartina
Alhamdulillah, dapat dua menantu tahun 2012



 my parents bergambar dengan pengantin



From left: Mak Ngah, my sister Ani, Kak Ju, my sister Liza and  Mila (cucu Kak Ju)



Yasmin's Uncle Nik, Aunty Azni and adik Nik Daniel


Selesailah sudah kenduri 3 hari 3 malam.

As parents, Faiz and I berasa lega kerana we now have someone to take care of our daughter.  Yasmin has always been a fiercely independant person and together with Faris, I am confident they will make a strong team together, insyaAllah.

My dear Yasmin, 
Marriage is the most important commitment you will ever make and the best marriage relationship takes energy... a LOT of energy ! From this moment onward, build a new unity...gradually leaving behind many of the things to which both of you were accustomed to. Look in the same direction together.

Things won't always be perfect and it is natural to find some difficulties along the way.  Don't sweat it! Remember the positive things that brought both of you together and then concentrate on positive goals to achieve as a couple.

Be a truly responsible and a 'prepared' adult, my princess ....  and be the best for each other.


Sunday, September 30, 2012

Wedding Yasmin & Faris - Part 2

Now kita bersambung ke hari kedua kenduri.

Friday; 24 August 2012 -  Yasmin's Wedding reception at Setia Pearl Island Country Club from 5pm to 10 pm.

Syukur cuacanya elok ... siang panas tak begitu terik dan petang serta malamnya tak hujan. Alhamdulillah.


Setia Pearl Island Country Club






5 pm - Faiz and I happily waiting for arrival of guests



my sister pinning corsage on my youngest son's suit. 



entrance into the ballroom

Untuk wedding receptionnya, Yasmin has chosen an assortment of cheerful colors -  Red, Orange, Yellow, Peach and Pink !


Pelamin



Wedding cake



di dalam ballroom juga dihiasi dengan balloon yang berwarna-warni



cute, kan?



two sets of food counters



menu for the day: Nasi Minyak & Nasi Briyani, Kurma Kambing, Dalca Sayuran, Ayam Basamah, Salad Kuah Kacang, Acar



colorful red, pink and yellow door gift bags yang mengandungi face towel



cute balloon decor at staircase



my nieces - Izzani (left) and Hamizah (right)
and Amirah (in photo below) distributing the door gifts 



by 5.30pm, there were steady streams of guests arriving



screen to entertain those who sat outside the ballroom



7 - 7.30pm : Berzanji



7.45pm - Arrival of Bride and Groom



Bridesmaid Nur Hanie, my niece, looking sweet that night; 
and Faris's pengapit looking equally handsome :-)



Faris and Yasmin making their way to the ballroom







disambut dengan riuh tepukan kompang ...



... dan dayang inang yang berbaris menunggu untuk mengiringi pengantin masuk ke dalam dewan







We bought Yasmin's wedding dress fabrics at Wisma Jakel Shah Alam and was recommended to have it specifically tailor-made to the style and exact cutting she preferred at Altelia Amani Boutique just a few doors away on the same block.  She had to make a few "dress fitting" trips up and down Shah Alam - Penang, but it was all worth it because the end results of the wedding dress set complete with shoes and veil was simply exquisite! Syukur Alhamdulillah. 



berhenti seketika di pintu masuk dewan untuk bacaan Selawat







tetamu-tetamu memberi tepukan apabila pengantin memasuki dewan



Yasmin specially requested for a white carpet instead of a red one















a moment of silence for the recitation of the Doa Selamat





I particularly like the above photo because it was a special moment I shared with my daughter. The Ustaz was reciting the Doa ; the ballroom was quiet ... everyone was either seated or standing still... and there I was... standing right at the far end of the ballroom ... hands high in the air waving at her ! Among the stillness of the crowd, she saw me and gave me this smile :-)



cultural dance show 



candlelight dinner for two



acara memotong Wedding Cake



my parents bergambar bersama pengantin 



my eldest son Farid, his wife Kartina and daughter Mimi Maisara



my family



Faris's family



Yasmin and her beloved maksu Ani



Memang adat di mana-mana majlis pun, se-bagus dan se-teliti mana yang memungkinkan kita membuat persiapan, ada sajalah perkara-perkara yang 'mengusik jiwa' berlaku.  Kalau  tak banyak, sedikit pasti ada.  

In my case, it was not only 'mengusik jiwa'.. but it was also an embarassing moment which hit me at the most peak hour of the night!

8.30pm - There was a sudden surge of guests pouring in.  Keadaan kecoh seketika when I was told, "Door gifts dah HABIS!!"  What??  It was only 8.30pm and we still have about one and a half hours more to go! I was dizzy with shock, I thought I was going to faint !  Aduiiihh..










With the overwhelming turnout of guests,  getting to the food counter was another disaster ! There were two long queues because pinggan dah habis and guests had to wait for the plates to be washed.... hmmm.... :-(






















With the effort made by relatives and friends who took the time to travel all the way to attend our event and sharing this special occasion with us, kami mengucapkan berbanyak-banyak terima kasih. You all have made the celebration extra special with your presence. Cuma ralat jugalah dengan situasi yang berlaku pada malam tu, tapi nak buat macamana dah, kan? 


10.30 pm - Majlis tamat.  Sebelum balik, sepupu berempat ni sempat bergambar. Thanks, my dear girls, for helping to distribute the door gifts.



Yasmin with her cousins
From left: Amirah, Yasmin, Faris, Hamizah, Nur Izzani



At the end of event, before going home, my sister distributed individually wrapped single roses I specially ordered for family 



semua dah keletihan


Before leaving the ballroom, I went to the VIP room to check and collect our belongings to bring back home. 

Another shocking moment !

At the corner of  the room, I found stacks of the wedding door gift bags lumped together!!  



Now nak buat apa dengan door gifts yang melambak  ni!!??  



myself tengah angin ! (bottom right of pic)


Nampaknya selepas ni have to trace back those who did not get the gifts and go round distributing the gifts pula. hmmm....





Yasmin & Faris - the beginning of their life together

To my new son-in-law, Faris, you are now an important part of our family and we welcome you into our family unreservedly and unconditionally.  We look forward to sharing your lives through the many years ahead.

To my daughter, Yasmin, you have now taken on the role of taking care of Faris. 
Remember Sayang...

A good marriage must be created.
In marriage, the little things, are the BIG things.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together and facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is not only marrying the right person but...
It is being 
the right PARTNER.














Semuga sentiasa diberkati Allah SWT. 
Amiiin.

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